Wordplay: Turn Yourself into a Pillow Talk Expert with 5 Main Phrases
Have you ever wondered what role play would be like for you and your other half but have found it awkward or felt tongue-tied ? Well, rest assured, we've got you covered! Below are some helpful tips and links to get you in all your sexy glory! Let’s get started!!
Step 1: Don't try too hard!
When we try too hard, we mostly end up failing or feeling discouraged. Also, if you try too hard, you're most likely not going to be comfortable. And if you're not comfortable, then your partner will sense this, and all of this equals to NO FUN! So, the best thing to start with is prepping yourself.
Have a nice shower, play some music, flirt with your partner during the day. This is good for sensing each other’s boundaries, and in the end, you’ll both be more relaxed and less tense.
Step 2: Start with light-hearted jokes to break the ice
Starting with an icebreaker, even if it's someone you've been with long-term, is always a good start. Even when we are comfortable, embarking on a new journey can be hard to gauge where the other person is at, so good communication is needed. Jokes can be sexy and create a nice lightened mood. Couples' games are another way to explore.
Step 3: It's okay to be nervous!
RELAX! It’s not a marathon. As previously stated, being nervous is very normal, even with a person you have been with for ages. Taking the steps before you embark on your journeys together can really help increase the likelihood of you both finding the experience enjoyable and incorporating it into your sex lives. It's okay to take small steps, and it's also okay to feel like you don’t know what you're doing, but rest assured, these steps will surely help you find that boost.
Step 4: Practice with audio erotica!
There is nothing more exhilarating than listening to something naughty in your headphones and no one knows about it! Audio erotica has seen a 3000% boom in interest since the Covid lockdown. This means that more and more people are finding solace in listening to erotic novels and scenarios. Finding a good audio erotica app is more accessible now than ever, and they often have sign-up rewards, giving you a free story every week. If this is something that tickles your interest, the links below will definitely help. Either listening and hearing how others sound or talking along with it can help you gain practice for the bedroom.
Step 5: If all else fails, download short scripts
Just like in Step 4, erotica books are also available if you are a preferred reader at Xiyren fantasies. You are able to download short scripts for a small fee. This can be used if you feel awkward listening, as putting sound to words holds many powers and can greatly enhance your life. So, what are you waiting for?